Here’s another piece to the social media/uber-connected-society puzzle we need to work out as we continue this grand experiment we are all a part of…
what happens to our social networking connections when we die?
Today a former colleague asked to connect to me on Plaxo Pulse, but when I approved his request, Plaxo Pulse put up an error message saying the connection couldn’t be established right now. However, since the request message also disappeared, I decided to check my list of Plaxo contacts to see if this person was, in fact, added (he was, despite the error message).
In doing so, though, what did I see on the top of one of my pages of contacts but this:

Now, as many readers may know, Marc Orchant passed away back on December 12th. He and I had been corresponding via Robert Sanzalone’s PacificIT Skype group chat and at some point in there while we in the chat were all trying out the new (at the time) Plaxo Pulse, he and I became connected there.
The Pulse connection, of course, survived his death.
Marc and I were not connected directly on LinkedIn, but I do note his profile is still there. If he was on Facebook, there does not seem to be an account there.
The question remains, though, what happens to all of your connections when you die? Do you have a plan for someone to go in and remove all of your accounts? Or should they just live on forever?
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I think its a bit like a memorial for the departed. I’ve lost a friend about a year ago, and his profile still acts as a sort of memorial page. No one knows the password to change or update his account, but we still comment that we miss him.
I think our online world and the media we make act as sort of a legacy… I don’t think it should be deleted at all. Gone, but not forgotten.
I’m still following Marc on Twitter… it feels like bad karma to ditch him now.
Hi Dan,
I actually blogged about this a while back (part of a series)
http://willknott.ie/2008/01/31/4-ds-of-information-loss-%e2%80%93-death/
FaceBook has what they call a “memorial state”. The facebook page is parked.I suspect that either Marc didn’t have one, or his family took it down.
Other sites delete the contents on proof of death.
Its a touchy subject as you can imagine.